In her book "The Surrendered Single," author Laura Doyle explains that many modern women try to exercise far too much control in their love lives and as a result have lost the pleasure of being pursued and genuinely desired by a man.

Instead of trying to hunt him down, focus on letting a man come to you naturally by being your true self. Start by smiling at everyone that you see and even consider accepting dates with men that you normally wouldn't. When you meet a man, wait for him to ask you out first and let him pay for the date. By following these simple rules you can reconnect with your femininity and dating becomes fun again.