In some ways I feel that the dating game can be tougher for men than it is for women, as men are still usually the initiators. Especially now in the 21st century, I think there's a real need for new dating tips for men that can help level the playing field and provide the tools that men need to succeed.

Dating Tips for Men

It’s rare for a woman to be totally direct and tell you that she’s attracted to you. Women are naturals when it comes to body language so she assumes that you’ll be able to read her signals and get the message.

By far the most significant signal of interest is TOUCH. People are well aware of the boundaries of each other’s personal space, so if she deliberately chooses to invade your space by reaching out and touching you, then this counts as a very strong sign of interest.

That's why it’s vital that SHE initiates the touching between you, so that you get a clear indication of her interest in you. If you start touching her before she’s ready to touch you, you risk making her defensive and inhibiting her desire for you. Always wait for her to touch you first!

Dating Tips for Men


by Tom Kerr
“The touch of the lips is usually sufficient to curl a woman’s toes, and if you want to kiss a girl the right way, do it softly and don’t hurry to squeeze her mouth against yours. If she likes it, she’ll let you know.” I can tell that Tom has been enjoying his research for this article! read more
by Tom Kerr
“The first giant step you need to take in order to deliver a great pick up line, is to get the notion of a pick up line, good or bad, out of your head and out of your mental vocabulary.” Tom considers if pick up lines still apply and studies the art of conversation between the sexes. read more
by Tom Kerr
“Today, in virtually every heath store, and in the aisles of every pharmacy, there are products sold with the promise of enhanced sexual appetite and performance, both for men and women.” Tom finds that they don’t all live up to the hype but suggests a few things worth trying. read more