Women are not such complicated creatures. They are complex, and mysterious, but they normally behave in ways that are not so complicated. If they think you’re a jerk, you’re not going to be talking to them long enough to wonder whether they like you or not; and if they are attracted to you, they will hang out with you and take the time to ask you about yourself.
Ask open-ended questions, the kind that can’t be easily answered with a simple “yes” or “no”. For example, instead of asking a woman if she would like another drink – an easy opportunity to hit a brick wall in the conversation if she says “no” – try asking a more open and general question, such as “What do you prefer, red wine or white?” or “What kind of cocktail are you drinking?” Of course if she has a beer in her hand, you might do well to revise that question, but you get the general idea, right guys?
If she takes off her underwear and slips it into your jacket pocket, you have probably had too much to drink!
Look for body language. If a woman turns her body toward you, or starts playing with her hair while you chat, this is good. If she touches you, even on the arm or hand, this is excellent. If she takes off her underwear and slips it into your jacket pocket, you have probably had too much to drink, and are passed out in the middle of the party, dreaming, while everyone makes fun of how loudly you snore. Snap out of it, dude.
Women are said to communicate almost twice as much as men. Studies have shown that in general, women speak twice as many words in conversation than do men, and this indicates that they have twice as much practice at expressing themselves men do. So when women encounter a man who is a good conversationalist, they generally find it attractive, unique, and a lot more fun.
The Art of Conversation
Learn to carry on a conversation, and you will never have to craft and polish another pick up line. Your entire method of communication will become an extended pick up line, and a smooth, unobtrusive, interesting one, at that.
if you have a hobby, become passionate about it and learn as much as you can about the things in life that turn you on
In order to carry on a good conversation, you have to have something to say. And if you spend your time gathering interesting information, you will be able to naturally, comfortably, and confidently engage in stimulating and attractive conversation, with any woman you meet.
You don’t have to spend all your free time in the library or memorizing trivia; just become interested in what is going on around you, and if you have a hobby, become passionate about it and learn as much as you can about the things in life that turn you on. Then, when you get a chance to talk to your date, the words that come out of your mouth won’t sound like a canned script, but they will reflect a creative and unique perspective on life and the things you enjoy.
Your words will be invested with your own passion, and yes, that is the ultimate turn-on and makes for a contagious kind of sexual chemistry.
