There is no secret formula to laying down the most irresistible and magnetic pick up line in the room, but there are some ways to improve your chances of getting a line on someone you’re trying meet, without turning them completely off in the process, and without having to be a creative genius with words.
The first giant step you need to take in order to deliver a great pick up line, is to get the notion of a pick up line, good or bad, out of your head and out of your mental vocabulary. The connotation behind pick up lines is so dreadful, that if you even have one iota of “pick up line mentality” vibrating through your skull, any woman with adequate radar will spot you from a mile away and shoot you down before you get within earshot.
Try a different approach, and a completely updated concept, and at least you’ll be considered original and won’t risk becoming the subject of “girls-night-out” ridicule while being quoted as the guy who came up with the worst line in the history of singles bars.
Many men before you have compared women’s sex appeal to snow tires, fishing boats, faithful dogs, and cowboy boots!
Leave metaphors and analogies to the experts who know the difference between the two. Similarly, a smile works better than a simile. Many men before you have compared women’s sex appeal to snow tires, fishing boats, faithful dogs, and cowboy boots, and gone home alone at the end of the night. And if you try to compliment a woman on the color of her eyes, but you can’t remember if they are blue or brown, you need to take off the beer brain and foggy goggles, and put on a thinking cap.
Women expect men to lie, cheat, steal, and make up corny lines, in order to win some attention. This isn’t a condemnation of men; it’s just based on experience. The world is crawling with men (not you, of course!) who will say anything to a woman, to get into her conversation, or her knickers.
The Recipe for Success
The expectation of these disappointed women, who would love to have a better experience with the opposite sex, generously reveals the whole recipe for the perfect pick up line, if you just flip it around and reverse the tactics.
if a woman keeps smiling, or if she laughs while you are talking, chances are you're either making a complete ass of yourself, or she really enjoys your company
1) Do tell the truth, 2) do be honest, 3) do give instead of trying to take, and 4) do avoid making up anything just to impress her.
Women appreciate a straightforward, genuine approach. Ask her name, inquire whether she is having a good night, and request that she tell you a bit about herself. Then listen, and if something she says resonates with you, follow the vibration. Watch her for clues and reactions: if a woman keeps smiling, or if she laughs while you are talking, chances are you're either making a complete ass of yourself, or she really enjoys your company. You’ll find out which it is soon enough, because either she will stick around or disappear.
