But the market for perfumes can be traced back to the days of Cleopatra, so there is a drop of truth in the idea that scents, especially musky, earthy, or floral scents like that of the precious and exotic Asian ylang ylang flower, can be an immediate turn-on.
And there is scientific research to back up the notion that our own bodies produce scents that are a natural stimulant to the opposite sex.
Exciting Oxytocin
Chocolate is not only yummy, but has also been scientifically proven to get most people excited about romance. Well made, rich, high-quality chocolates contain chemicals known as oxytocins, and these help to release hormones and other natural chemicals without our brains and bodies that create sexual drive. And chocolate has caffeine in it. One sex psychologist was quoted as saying that anything that helps you stay awake will indirectly improve the chances that your sex life is better, because most people lose interest in sex as soon as their partner falls sound asleep.
Some of the most effective aphrodisiacs are related to communication, both verbal and physical.
So the bottom line is: eat well, stay healthy, stay awake, and don’t forget to bring flowers and chocolate. Sounds like the same advice we have heard before, but the millions of people who buy flowers and chocolate on Valentine’s Day can’t all be wrong.
And it is important to note that effective aphrodisiacs are not only limited to things we can eat, as many people mistakenly believe, but also include things that we can do and say. Some of the most effective aphrodisiacs are related to communication, both verbal and physical.
Sweet Nothings
Whispering sweet nothings in your darling’s ear, or just talking frankly about your relationship, can do more for your libido than all the gimmicky pills and potions in the world. And the sense of touch, especially when used to reduce stress and anxiety, can have a powerfully aphrodisiac effect. Massage, combined with aromatherapy oils, is one of the most practical aphrodisiacs of all, and whether it is applied to the toes, feet, or fingertips, the results will surely be felt in all the right spots.
So next time you need some magic in your love life, talk to your partner, and give them some tender attention. It may be all the aphrodisiac you need to make them a firm believer in the power of natural aphrodisiacs. And if you are still concerned that it won’t be enough, bring along a jar of chocolate body paint, just for good measure.
